Last weekend, the wife and I took a trip to our old stomping grounds, Atlanta, Ga. It’s a little over three hours from our home so, she thought it would be fun if we each made a playlist inspired by our lives as a couple. The way we separately interpreted this task was inspiring to me.
My wife (as many women can) has always been able to tell me what who was wearing at any point in history. She can, for almost every date, event, encounter, or any happening with even the slightest significance, tell you what everyone involved was wearing. I used to find this befuddling but, while perusing my audio library for playlist fodder, I found out that I can do that with music. All of the music I chose came from memories I have with her. For instance, the first time we heard “Move, Bitch” by Ludacris was on our honeymoon. We were just about to be in New Orleans when it came on the radio. Another one is Joss Stones’ “Some Kind of Wonderful” which we heard live at Music Midtown in Atlanta. All total, there were sixty four songs on my list representing everything from major events to a comment she made about a particular Charles Mingus tune (Better Get it in Your Soul). I remember when, where, and what we were doing when those tunes were playing.
For her lists (she actually made two), she chose a completely different route. While one was all the concerts we have been to (kind of similar to mine), the other was made entirely music that evoked thoughts and feelings of me. Several of the tunes I had never heard like “Hold You in My Arms” by Ray LaMontagne and “Lover” by Devendra Banhart. Then there were some classics like “Forever” by Ben Harper (long before this blasted Relentless 7 crap) and “Do You Realize??” by The Flaming Lips. For her, some of the songs’ meanings were enhanced by a shared moment but the main point was the meaning of the words or the feelings they brought out.

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Of course, it’s no secret that music effects people in different ways but this was, for some reason, kind of a profound moment for me. Even though many of the songs I chose represented my feelings for her, most of the value I assigned to them was based on a moment with her. A memory of a time (good or bad) that we heard that song together.
I guess the reason all this strikes me is that, for the last seven and a half years, there has been few days we have been apart (for that matter, add in the time we dated for an amazing eleven years!) yet all that music has stuck with us in completely different ways.

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